Due to the increased workload, as well as stresses at work, most couples, by the time they get home in the evening, are just way too tired and totally not in the mood for sex.
Now, do you know that, not having enough sex is one of the reasons why a couple's marriage ended up in a divorce? Many studies have been done and concluded that having sex regularly is one of the major reasons why couples managed to stay ever so loving even though they have been married for decades.
So, what do you need to do tonight to set yourself (as well as your partner up) in a mood for some red-hot romantic sex? Here are some tips to help you out …
1. Get Rid Of All Possible Distractions
Do you know that electronic devices such as your cell phone, your television set, as well as your computer, are reasons why you are not having sex?
Many couples who have interviewed said that, most of the times they'll spend the entire evening either texting their friends on their cell phone, watching their favorite shows on the television, or spending hours on social networking sites like Facebook … So much so that they are neglecting one another!
Therefore, the first thing you'd want to do is to get rid of all possible distractions – such as turning off your cell phone the minute you get home, unplugging the television set and your computer from your power socket.
2. Lighten Up!
Stress and tension are two common reasons why couples are not having as much sex that they should.
So what you need to do is to lighten up … And just how can you do that?
The answer is simple: Do something crazy together! It can be something like having a little wrestling match, a pillow fight, a food fight, playing catching around the house, etc. – All it takes is some creativity and some "thinking out of the box".
Engaging in crazy activities like these with your partner after a long, hard day at work can really help to lighten up your mood and hence, increase the likelihood in which you and your partner will end your day with a round of red-hot, romantic lovemaking.
3. Recall The Good Ol 'Days
Take a break from the real life and visit the yesteryears.
You and your partner can take a stroll through your life when you first met your partner – Think about the moment when the both of you first met each other, the initial feelings you both had when you first start seeing each other, the wonderful and romantic times you both had while you were dating each other, etc.
All these recalling the good ol 'romantic days can set the both of you up in a mood to want to have sex.
4. Put Forth A Date Where You And Your Partner Can Have Sometimes Alone To Yourself
Put forth a date where both you and your partner can have sometimes alone to yourself on a romantic date night. Life takes its toll, especially if you have kids. Get a baby sitter or better yet, take them to grandma and grandpa's house for the weekend.
Without all the worry or the little ones to listen for, your sex life can be what it was before life got in the way. It's a matter of timing and organization to find the right day and time to put all the things that can worry or interrupt you in the background, so the both of you can spend time alone.